Seb & Jess BRANDT-BALLY

Spiritual Leadership Self-Reflection Test

As a leader, your heart, thoughts, and actions affect those you shepherd. This self-reflection helps you recognize patterns of shame, pride, and unhealthy reactions. Rate each statement from 1 (Not at all) to 10 (Always/Often).

Part 1: Emotional Triggers

1. I feel anxious, criticized, or unsettled when others provide feedback or correction

2. I feel hurt, rejected, or overlooked when others do not acknowledge my work or vision

Part 2: Thought Patterns

3. I replay past mistakes or failures and feel guilt or shame

4. I feel the need to protect my image, authority, or reputation at all costs

Part 3: Emotional Reactions

5. I feel anger, frustration, or discouragement when my leadership or vision is questioned

6. I feel insecure, inferior, or anxious when others excel or are praised

Part 4: Relational Behaviors

7. I avoid people, conflict, or accountability when I feel ashamed or vulnerable

8. I try to control outcomes, people, or situations to avoid feeling exposed or vulnerable

9. I avoid admitting mistakes or asking for help to protect my position or pride

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